MY HEART IS BROKEN: Which is why you must protect your Heart.

It is quite unfortunate that what we should be protecting is what we handle with levity. And I wonder why we get hurt and down when this thing get broken, damaged, and destroyed. Because it’s obvious we let it happen. I guess it’s true that, what is perceived to be valuable should be given astute attention. The case is so different for so many of us. We tend to value what is valueless and dis-value what is valuable.

Now what is more valuable, aside from God, than our heart? If we can not protect our hearts, the truth is, nobody else will. Your heart is you. And not protecting your heart Is same as not protecting you. So who you choose to go with is very important in determining your happiness and joy. Thousands of people today are in traumatic condition, so severe, that some it has become measure Life time threat. Why? One guy/girl somewhere broke his/her heart. It’s imperative that every human should be in love with three persons to save oneself from the heart break saga. First is God, You, then your Spouse. The love of God guides your heart, that even when you get disappointed by your spouse, you know you still got God’s love intact that never fails nor disappoints.

So how do you protect your heart? Firstly, by loving God first. Let Him be your first spouse, lover. I remember when I was heart broken. The truth is, it was easy for me to bounce back, not because I didn’t like the person, just that the love of God in my heart (my first love) protected my Joy. I felt disappointed but not rejected. Do you know the love of God teaches us how to love our spouses, families, and friends better? Yes, it does. That is why I call it ‘THE LOVE GUIDE’. Loving God is none-negotiable.  Secondly, love yourself. The love of God makes you value you unselfishly. It enables you see yourself worthy to give love. That is why the first love is so important: It’s the foundation of other love. You can’t give what you don’t have. Until you value you, you won’t be able to know and sense if you are being valued. God’s estimation of us is apparently our real estimation of who we really are. Lastly, love your spouse. Don’t you think it will become easier now to love your spouse. The love of God trains your heart. You loving yourself equips your heart. Loving your spouse is an expression of what is in your heart. Heart breaks become minimized to level of no longer a life threatening thing.  I hope this short write up does something tangible in your heart.