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WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU WHAT YOU DON'T EXPECT: Create What You Do Want and Expect.

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Whoever that say living in this world is easy, that person is living in illusion. Who doesn't know life is not a bed of roses. But even as that, it has been proven one can still make good out of something bad. Truly life is not easy; especially in our expectation of wanting something and having the opposite. There are many people who are currently doing things they never thought or see themselves doing. Finding themselves in an environment so below their expectation. The question is, which choice do they have? I believe only those they can control. So those they can not control, they just have to find a fitting. I have come to understand that, in as much as life is not easy, one can still make things happen. But we must understand that hard times have not come to stay. They may seem long, painful, and daring, they don't last. With this mindset, it becomes easy for one to win any life battles. So what do you do when life gives you what you don't expect? You fight back to

PEOPLE LIVING A FAKE LIFE: They Your Friends, Know Them.

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People living a fake life is like someone wearing a mask. They are one thing outside and something else inside. They portray a certain kind of lifestyle that is not true with their real personality. They make you feel they are who you think they are, even when they are far fetched from what they claim. I wonder why would anybody would want to live a life like that. Funny enough, there are people who enjoy living that kind of life. I mean, it makes their day any time any day. And i don't think there is anything bad in calling people like that fraudsters. If i may ask, who is a fraudster? No time for too much grammar: they are deceivers. They make a living by deceiving people their hard earned goodies. Is that far from what people living a fake life do? No. It is obvious they do same. Every of their action is a lie. You may ask, what am i trying to pass in writing this post? Simple, it hurts me seeing people living this way and those who get hurt by people living like that. And t

MY HEART IS BROKEN: Which is why you must protect your Heart.

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It is quite unfortunate that what we should be protecting is what we handle with levity. And I wonder why we get hurt and down when this thing get broken, damaged, and destroyed. Because it’s obvious we let it happen. I guess it’s true that, what is perceived to be valuable should be given astute attention. The case is so different for so many of us. We tend to value what is valueless and dis-value what is valuable. Now what is more valuable, aside from God, than our heart? If we can not protect our hearts, the truth is, nobody else will. Your heart is you. And not protecting your heart Is same as not protecting you. So who you choose to go with is very important in determining your happiness and joy. Thousands of people today are in traumatic condition, so severe, that some it has become measure Life time threat. Why? One guy/girl somewhere broke his/her heart. It’s imperative that every human should be in love with three persons to save oneself from the heart break saga. First i

SHE IS COMPLETE

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“Beauty with brain is a double advantage” they say, even when it’s obvious that we live in a world where only physical beauty is celebrated. A woman who is beautiful doesn’t only radiate, predominately, on the physical allurement of her clothe and body build-up, but vitally inclusive from her Gentle spirit (character). A woman who is brainy is not totally dependent on her academic achievements but on her cleverness and smartness. Before the education she has been representing total beauty. Meet the Complete Woman: 1.       Her source is from above (heaven) before beneath (earth). 2.       Her selling point is not her physique but her character. 3.       Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks no value. 4.       Her children call her blessing. 5.       Her modesty is strength and dignity. 6.       Her arms strong for her task. 7.       Her days to come are open with laughter. 8.       Her wisdom is impeccable. 9.       Her household doesn’t eat the bread

COMMITMENT AND DEDICATION

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Commitment and Dedication .   It never really crossed my mind that these two words could have different meanings until I listened to a recent podcast where the speaker casually mentioned that there was a difference between them.  “Commitment is made with the head, while dedication is made with the heart”. We often see these two words used interchangeably. Many dictionaries use one of them when defining the other. One of such defines dedication as “the quality of being committed to something”.  This means that dedication could be seen as a measure of commitment –a larger degree of commitment. This was a huge discovery to me.  It got me thinking all through that day, and all through the week.  I decided to get on the phone with a very dear friend of mine to share the idea and, together, we came up with eight different areas where the difference between ‘commitment’ and ‘dedication’ could be seen. And I decided to share them with you this week: Relationships A guy makes a

Nigeria Really in Recession?

The word "opportunity defined by my mini English dictionary as a chance for advancement, progress or profit, or a favorable circumstance or occasion. Now am only interested in just two words from the above definition, which are advancement and progress. Not many of us would agree, especially at this present state of things in our country Nigeria that we are really in the best moment or circumstance to be favored or would be favored of any thing or by anyone. I don't know if you know that a lot of persons, or should i say people are enjoying this time of economical meltdown as much as others are wailing  in their bedrooms. Some are having their best sales of their life time, why some are having their worst nightmare of their life time. That has brought me to the conclusion that one famous prayer point that will be in the mouths of those benefiting and complaining are, "God stop what is happening (complainers) and God let things just continuing to be as it is forever (benef

The fear people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage.

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The fear that many people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage is that they'll be clumsy and inexperienced on their wedding night. That both may not be compatible sexually. Guess what? It's okay to be clumsy and inexperinced. It means you need to devote a lot of time to practice after the wedding. The point is that the focus for both people (especially the man) should be on serving the other person, not demanding gratification. Part of the beauty of a Christian marriage between two partners who have not known each other sexually is the discovery and mutual learning experince. Remember your goal is not to be an expert in bed when you get married, that shouldn't be anyone's goal. Our main concern as christian should be purity before God, not being experienced lovers when we get married. So therefore no excuses for you to indulge in physical relationship with your to be husband or wife. Cast off that fear of you not being sexually compatible,