The fear people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage.

The fear that many people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage is that they'll be clumsy and inexperienced on their wedding night. That both may not be compatible sexually. Guess what? It's okay to be clumsy and inexperinced. It means you need to devote a lot of time to practice after the wedding.

The point is that the focus for both people (especially the man) should be on serving the other person, not demanding gratification. Part of the beauty of a Christian marriage between two partners who have not known each other sexually is the discovery and mutual learning experince. Remember your goal is not to be an expert in bed when you get married, that shouldn't be anyone's goal. Our main concern as christian should be purity before God, not being experienced lovers when we get married.

So therefore no excuses for you to indulge in physical relationship with your to be husband or wife. Cast off that fear of you not being sexually compatible, because there's nothing like such. Look, it's even more good to show up on your wedding night as novices. No practice, no experience, just a desire to learn and to rejoice in the new discoveries you both will make.
Note this, only selfishness and sin make two people sexually incompatible.

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