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The fear people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage.

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The fear that many people have about not having a physical relationship before marriage is that they'll be clumsy and inexperienced on their wedding night. That both may not be compatible sexually. Guess what? It's okay to be clumsy and inexperinced. It means you need to devote a lot of time to practice after the wedding. The point is that the focus for both people (especially the man) should be on serving the other person, not demanding gratification. Part of the beauty of a Christian marriage between two partners who have not known each other sexually is the discovery and mutual learning experince. Remember your goal is not to be an expert in bed when you get married, that shouldn't be anyone's goal. Our main concern as christian should be purity before God, not being experienced lovers when we get married. So therefore no excuses for you to indulge in physical relationship with your to be husband or wife. Cast off that fear of you not being sexually compatible,

Hope this will bless you "Single Truths for Single Christians"

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To be single in our evangelical Christian society is to be different. For most of us, being single isn't what we planned. So we're left with hounding questions: What exactly is God doing with our lives? Why doesn't He give us what we want? Does He really love us? Why has He blessed most of our friends with the very thing we want? Why has He left us out? I've asked singles across the nation about the emotional struggles they face. They're lonely. Sometimes they're jealous. They feel abandoned. They aren't content, and it seems impossible that they ever could be. They have good days - they go on missions trips and get involved in their church and go to Bible studies and buy houses and throw barbecues. But these difficult emotions lurk in the corners and sometimes take over - like when they get five wedding invitations in the course of one summer. Some singles take it harder than others. Many of us are an emotional mess. And we think it's i

Dating Tips for Finding the Right Person

Single and looking for love? Dating’s hard enough without the emotional baggage you may be bringing to the table. And when you’re having trouble finding a love connection, it’s all too easy to buy into the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships. That’s why you may want to start by re-assessing your beliefs and expectations about love—especially if you’ve been burned repeatedly or have a poor track record when it comes to dating. Learning how to keep things in perspective, watch for red flags, and deal with trust issues will put you on the path to finding a loving relationship that lasts.

Rich people mentality on wealth creation

Rich people think you cannot create wealth by what you do. You make a living by what you do; you create wealth by what the system does. Poor people define work as labor; rich people define work as thinking (mental exercise) creating a system that works for you efficiently without demanding your presence. Rich people see their businesses as a system, which is easier for them to manage and able to predict their productivity. Rich people think wealth is deliberate, that is, creating wealth is not by chance but deliberately. Wealth is not in a place, it is in people. Rich people are thinkers and investors. Poor people have contact, rich people have network. They understand that you make a living by competence, you make wealth by system. Poor people look for cash, rich people look for knowledge. One thing to understand why people are poor is, because poverty is not a mindset, poverty is a lifestyle. Look their attitude. Poor people put money in the house, middle class keep mon

It is a matter of choice

We must understand that when man makes a decision, he does it not because he seeks for truth but what will satisfy him......that is to say, we do know the right thing to do but will choose to follow our desires, even when they are hurting people around us....